If your invitation to an Indian wedding has just landed, congratulations! You’re in for a whirlwind of color, music, and scrumptious food.
But wait! What about your outfit? Dressing for an Indian wedding is part of the experience, and we’re here to ensure you’re the best-dressed guest (without stealing the bride and groom’s spotlight, of course). So, the ultimate question when attending an Indian wedding isn’t just what to wear to a wedding. It’s how to stand out while fitting in like a Bollywood star.
Relax, because this guide on Indian wedding guest dresses will help you make a grand entry without looking like you’re auditioning for Groomzilla 2.0.
What Are the Different Wedding Dress Codes?
Indian weddings are a mix of formals and semi-formals, with traditions as diverse as the colors you'll see on the dance floor. So, before you go on a shopping spree, decide what to wear to a wedding, first.
Here’s a quick cheat sheet for your ease:
North Indian Weddings
Go heavy on lehenga for women, sarees, or Anarkalis with bold colors and embroidery. Whether you buy an Indian saree online or raid your mom’s wardrobe, there’s no going wrong with traditional masterpieces. For a hassle-free yet elegant look, consider a pre-stitched saree perfect for North Indian weddings when you want the grace of a saree without the fuss of draping.
South Indian Weddings
Kanjivaram silk sarees reign supreme for women, while men can opt for veshtis, Badhgala or bandis. Know what’s the difference between Bandhgala and Bandi? A Badhgala is a structured, high-collared jacket that oozes sophistication. Pair it with tailored trousers or even a dhoti for a touch of traditional flair. And a bandi, or Nehru jacket, is a sleeveless, hip-length jacket with a band collar. It’s popular for semi-formal gatherings
Destination Weddings
These weddings are held in scenic spots, such as tropical beaches, beautiful resorts, historical cities, or even picturesque vineyards. The charm of destination weddings lies in their intimate and relaxed atmosphere, with a beautiful backdrop that offers the perfect setting for exchanging vows. Fusion wear like Indo-Western outfits or lighter fabrics work perfectly here.
What Should a Female Guest Wear to a Wedding?
Ladies, if you’re wondering what to wear to a wedding, think sarees that dazzle, lehengas that twirl, and fusion outfits that scream modern elegance.
Sarees and Kurtas for the Win!
Any traditional Indian dress is more than an outfit; it’s your golden ticket to blending tradition with Instagram-worthy glamour. And, nothing screams "elegance" louder than a saree. Pair yours with a statement blouse, bold jewellery, and an elegant clutch to complete the look. Kurta is also a stylish and comfortable option that balances tradition and modernity. From rich, embroidered designs to simpler cotton versions, a kurta adds a touch of sophistication without overdoing it.
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Lehenga Love
A lehenga is your personal red carpet moment: twirl-ready, jaw-dropping, and perfect for stealing a little spotlight. Choose one with a heavily embroidered choli (blouse) and a lighter skirt if you want to dance the night away without sweating buckets.
Pro tip: Color-blocking is trendy, so don’t shy away from pairing mustard with magenta!
Anarkali Glam
If you’re after comfort-meets-chic, an Anarkali suit is your go-to. It’s like wearing a gown but with desi flair. Add Jhumkas and a pair of killer heels, and you’re all set to own the dance floor.
Fusion Flair
For the minimalist in you, fusion wear like a dhoti pant paired with a crop top or an Indo-Western gown can make heads turn. Ladies, if you want to make a statement without blending into the crowd, the sharara is your secret weapon. This flared pant-and-kurta combo is breezy and elegant: perfect for twirling on the dance floor while looking effortlessly regal. Pair it with statement Jhumkas and a Potli bag (pouch bag embellished with embroidery), and you’re ready to slay.
Check out our blog on Indian potli bags to see a range of stunning potli handbags, perfect for all kinds of outfits for wedding events!
What Should a Male Guest Wear to a Wedding?
Men, remember: cracking the code of what to wear to a wedding is all about blending timeless ethnic charm with a dash of contemporary cool.
The Tuxedo Twist
If the wedding has a modern vibe (or you’re too shy for ethnic wear), opt for a sharply tailored suit. Add a pocket square with Indian embroidery to stay on the theme.
Kurta Magic
For semi-formal events like mehendi, a kurta-pajama combo is both stylish and comfortable. Pick vibrant colors or pastel shades, depending on the time of the event. Add a Nehru silk jacket for extra oomph. Check out our stunning collection of kurtas for men for more options!
Accessories Are Not Optional
Rock a pair of Mojris (traditional footwear) or leather sandals to complete your look. Oh, and don’t forget a well-groomed beard or a crisp haircut; it’s your best accessory.
Dear ladies, you want to shine in accessories as well, right? For the perfect ensemble, try matching your outfit with our collection of the best sneakers for women and designer handbags for women.
Dos and Don’ts of Wedding Guest Attire
When in doubt about what to wear to a wedding, remember: confidence, color, and comfort are your golden tickets to slaying the celebration.
Dos
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Go bold with colors. Think ruby reds, emerald greens, royal blues, and sunshine yellows.
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Layer your accessories: statement necklaces, bangles, and Maang tikas (Indian hair accessories worn on the hair parting) for women; brooches and pocket squares for men.
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Keep a shawl or stole handy, especially for evening events or air-conditioned venues.
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Consider the event, always. For casual pre-wedding events, go for lighter fabrics and fun styles. For the ceremony, choose something more formal and sophisticated.
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Choose comfortable shoes. Go for block heels or stylish flats that allow you to stand and dance for hours without discomfort.
Don’ts
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Overdo it. If your outfit blinds people, dial it back. It’s not a competition!
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Ignore comfort. You’ll be sitting, standing, and dancing for hours, so make sure you can move without feeling like a mummified peacock.
If you’re worried about your outfit and whether your accessories go with your outfit, you can consult our personal stylist services to make your styling experience even more effortless.
What Jewelry and Makeup to Wear to an Indian Wedding?
Indian weddings are the perfect excuse to channel your inner queen.
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Ladies, opt for polki (Indian jewellery made with uncut, natural diamonds, often set in gold) or Kundan jewellery (traditional and ornate with a gemstone setting) that complements your outfit.
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Choose gold or silver jewellery (layered necklaces or simple hoop earrings) to add a touch of sparkle without overwhelming the look.
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Makeup should be bold yet balanced. Think smoky eyes, a statement lip, and just enough highlighter to glow (but not to outshine the bride).
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And gents, consider a brooch or a pocket watch for that regal touch. A brooch pinned to your lapel or a vintage pocket watch peeking from your waistcoat not only complements your outfit but also shows off your attention to detail.
Takeaway
So, Indian weddings are not just celebrations. They are experiences. Soak in the colors, the culture, and the chaos. Whether you’re twirling in a lehenga or swaying in a sherwani, remember this: confidence is your best outfit. Own your look, hit the dance floor, and prepare for an endless stream of compliments.
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